When you have met the love of your life you hope so much he feels the same.
You are mentally planning a dazzling future together but is he in the same game?
1. HE WANTS YOU TO THINK YOU’RE AWESOME:It’s not enough that he thinks you’re a beautiful and awesome creature, he wants to be sure you think that about yourself, too.One of the signs that he will never stop loving you is that he not only offers words of assurance, but can sense when you’re feeling a little down on yourself.
2. HE’S FULLY COMMITTED THROUGH GOOD TIMES AND BAD:It’s easy to be there when things are going great.
It’s a little harder when the road becomes rocky.When the going gets tough his first thought is how you will stick it out together, he won’t be looking for the exit.He won’t run after a little fight, and if he’s in a bad mood he won’t take it out on those close to him.
3. NOT ONLY IS HE SMART, BUT HE’S WISE:Smart people know a lot of things.Wise people know how to use that information.He can see things objectively and is able to give you pretty good advice and just about any situation you’re facing.He’s able to put himself in your shoes and see things from your perspective, and he won’t blow you off with some half-hearted cliché he thinks you want to hear.
4.HE FACES PROBLEMS:At the first sign of trouble many men are looking for an exit.Not this guy.He faces problems head on and looks for reasonable solutions.He doesn’t bottle things up – if something is bothering him in the relationship, he brings it up carefully and respectfully so that you don’t feel attacked and will want to work with him towards a solution.
5.HE DOESN’T FORGET THE LITTLE THINGS:He knows you care about certain things, such as the dishes being done or the trash taken out.This doesn’t bother him, because these are little things that make you happy.Maybe when he was living alone a sink overflowing with dishes didn’t bother him, but he’ll take time away from things he enjoys doing to be sure the clothes make it to the wash and the dishwasher gets emptied because not doing those things stresses you out.
6. HE SHRUGS OFF YOUR MISTAKES:Everyone makes mistakes;he doesn’t hold yours against you.If you said something to offend him, even if it stings a little, he’s pretty sure you didn’t mean it that way and laughs it off.If you let him down, he won’t hold it against you, like that time you stayed late at work when he had a nice dinner ready for you.
7.YOUR PROBLEMS ARE HIS PROBLEMS:He doesn’t like it when something’s bothering you, and if it’s bothering you it bothers him too.He’ll try to figure out ways to solve the problem with the least amount of pain.It’s doesn’t bother him to lose sleep over your problems, but it does bother him when you’ve got a problem he can’t help you with.
When this happens, he’ll do what he can to stand by your side no matter what.
8.Whether it’s taking you out for a meal at your favourite restaurant, buying you a bunch of your favourite flowers or giving you a massage after a long and hard day at work, he’s always looking for fun and exciting ways to surprise you.
9. HE’S YOUR BEST FRIEND:Not only will he always love you and stay by your side, but he is also your best friend and can take on this role at the same time as being a loving partner.This means he’ll always be your shoulder to cry on, the one to rub your back when you need a little cheering up and genuinely hurts himself to see you hurting.
10.HE MAKES AN EFFORT WITH YOUR FAMILY:You’ll know he’s a keeper when he makes a genuine effort to get along and build positive relationships with important people in your life such as your family as well as friends.Even if he doesn’t have much in common with some of them, he understands the importance of trying and will always put the effort in on his end.